In love and she says she needs to figure out her life before she can be with me...?

Okay so there's is girl that i care for soo much, she cares for me to.. about 2 or so weeks ago she called me and was teling me how much she wanted o be wih me and that she would prove it to me.. because she confused the hell out of me with some things she done.. Any way this girl was more then hurt in her last relationship.. her boyfriend destroyed her.. i was there for her and was with her before she got back with him.. She was on prescriptions and stuff to cope with her depression and o help her sleep. She tried to kill herself a few weeks ago by taking the pills.. ended up in a coma for 12 hour.. but shes fine know and has gotten help since. So today when i ask her if she wanted to go for a drink after work.. she says she cant because she cant be with me cause she has so much to work out.. and that its not fair to me. and that she was no good to anyone until she figured out her life, and that i didnt need to be here for her cause she couldnt really ask anyhing of me. I old her im for her regardless.. I really care for this girl.. im not just going to give up.. and ive said that.. What cannn i doooo. Im not just gonna stop talking to her i want to be with her oo much and shes old me how much she wants me to. help plsss thankx for reading and responding