Ok, so, I want to know if I'm out of line here as the girl in this relationship...?

I totally understand your feelings in this. I am the same way. I'm always nice (sugar-coating I guess) and encouraging while my boyfriend tells it how it is. I think it really may just be a guy thing. While they are thinking they are doing a good thing by being honest and not fake, I think females tend to think it's better to compliment while suggesting improvements. I think it should require some give from both ends. I think do think he should have thanked you, and maybe not said it was great, but at least said it was pretty good while suggesting that maybe it would be a little improved with more garlic. I think that if he saw that this offended you this time, that the next time you cooked he should have acted more appreciative. That being said, I also think, however, that a lot of women can be too sensitive. I know I am. I don't think he was trying to offend you, but I think you both just have different values in this case. His: being honest and to the point. Yours: always being careful of other peoples' feelings. Both have their merits. I do feel like, however, a lot of men don't even try to change out of consideration for their partners while women are constantly trying to change and improve themselves for their partners. It can be quite frustrating! No offense to the men out there who do try.